Reconnect Without Feeling Like You’re in Therapy

This isn’t another talk-it-out session. 

It’s guided, experiential coaching that helps you feel safe, sensual, and emotionally connected—again.

If you and your partner are stuck in the same patterns, avoiding touch, or struggling to talk without arguing or worse, just not talking at all—you're not alone. The problem isn’t just communication. It’s what’s happening underneath it: unspoken needs, nervous system overwhelm, and intimacy blocks that no one ever taught you how to move through.

That’s where I come in.

As a Certified VITA Somatic Intimacy Coach and Sexual Health Educator, I guide couples out of disconnection and into deep emotional attunement, conscious touch, and sacred intimacy. Together, we’ll shift from surface-level problem-solving into embodied connection—and that’s where real healing begins.

You don’t have to stay stuck in roommate mode.
You don’t have to keep living with the ache of emotional distance.

• You’ve lost your spark and don’t know how to get it back
• Sex feels infrequent, disconnected, or nonexistent
• You love each other but struggle to communicate
• You're tired of fighting… or tired of not talking at all
• You want more—more intimacy, more presence, more passion

• You’ve tried therapy and still feel disconnected
• Sex feels like pressure, or you’re on different desire cycles
• One or both of you feel unseen, unwanted, or emotionally distant
• Communication often turns into conflict or shutdown
• You’re committed to growing—but need a different kind of support
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• Personalized somatic practices to reset the nervous system
• Erotic attunement tools to deepen intimacy & desire
• Gentle trauma-informed space to unpack blocks & emotional triggers
• Guided breathwork and touch-based rituals (virtual or in-studio)
• Real skills to create emotional safety and lasting passion

• Somatic tools to regulate your nervous systems and reconnect
• Communication practices to be heard and seen without shutdown or escalation
• Sacred intimacy techniques to bring sensuality and safety back into your bedroom
• Repatterning your dynamic from performance-based to presence-driven connection
• Creating shared goals and agreements so you’re on the same team again

"We went from constant conflict to actually wanting to spend time together. Kimber gave us the tools—and the space—to rebuild trust and turn our intimacy back on."

"I didn’t think anything could help us. But after one session, I felt more seen by my partner than I had in years."

"Kimber helped us move through years of resentment without shame. Now we have tools that feel real—and sensual—for our marriage."

You don’t need to figure this out on your own. Your relationship is worth tending to—and you don’t have to wait until things are falling apart to start healing. Book a free 30-minute Discovery Call and see what’s possible when you’re guided back into connection, trust, and pleasure.

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Is this like therapy?
Not quite. I focus on the body, the breath, your emotional language, and your erotic blueprint. This is practical, embodied support—not just talk.

How does coaching differ from traditional therapy?

While therapy often delves into past experiences, our coaching focuses on present challenges and actionable strategies to achieve specific relationship goals as well as being desire-based so we are always working toward what it is that you most desire from your relationship instead of focussing on the problems.

Do we have to talk about sex?
Only if you're ready. I create a safe, judgment-free space to explore whatever is showing up. Most couples find it relieving, even freeing.

What if my partner is skeptical?
That’s totally normal. I work with where you both are. You don't need to be on the same page to get started—just willing.

Is coaching suitable for couples on the brink of separation?

Yes, my coaching is designed to assist couples at various stages, including those considering separation, by providing tools to rebuild and strengthen the relationship.

What can we expect during the free Discovery Call

The Discovery Call is an opportunity to discuss your relationship concerns, understand my coaching approach, and determine if it's the right fit for your needs.

• 10-week private coaching container
• Virtual or in-studio options (Downtown Phoenix area)
• Personalized practices and take-home rituals
• Optional breathwork, sensual touch, and erotic attunement practices
• Ongoing support between sessions 

Are you ready to reconnect—without the therapy vibe?