Introducing - Energetic Time Travel™ -somatic soul-retrieval journey
A Retreat Rooted in Spaciousness
There are seasons in relationship where life becomes louder than connection.
There are seasons in relationship where life becomes louder than connection...
Schedules replace presence.
Stress replaces softness.
Conversations become logistical.
Touch becomes routine.
The Softening was created as a spacious exhale.
Nestled beneath the Montana sky, this intimate retreat invites couples into a slower rhythm… one that creates room for connection, breath, tenderness, rest, and meaningful time together.
This is not a packed workshop weekend.
It is a carefully curated retreat experience designed to help couples soften out of performance and back into presence through spacious mornings, nourishing meals, guided connection practices, nature, rest, and intentional time together.
No packed schedules * No emotional performance
* No pressure to become anything other than human
Just space.
Breath.
Presence.
Softening.
What Makes This Retreat Different
Most retreats ask couples to do more...
More workshops.
More processing.
More emotional output.
The Softening was created differently.
This retreat is rooted in the understanding that connection often returns naturally when couples are finally given enough space to slow down.
Space to breathe.
Space to rest.
Space to soften.
Space to simply be together again.
The goal is not performance. It is presence.
Coherence.
Safety.
Connection.
Moments you may find yourself in...
A Gentle Rhythm for Connection
Slow mornings.
Mountain air.
Coffee or tea in a hammock.
Conversations that continue long after dinner ends.
Time to wander.
Time to rest.
Time to reconnect without pressure.
Throughout the retreat, couples are invited into a nourishing rhythm of:
- guided breath-led connection practices
- nature and rest
- nourishing chef-prepared meals
- spacious integration
- and intentional time together.
Some couples may spend hours talking.
Others may sit quietly inside the stargazing dome.
Every experience is welcome here.
Coming home to each other...
Healing Happens at the Pace of Safety
Deep connection cannot be forced.
This retreat was created with the understanding that every nervous system opens differently, and every relationship has its own rhythm.
Everything within this retreat is designed with nervous system safety and spaciousness in mind.
Everything is invitational.
Couples often describe feeling:
- emotionally safe
- deeply seen
- gently guided
- able to soften naturally into connection.
This is not about performing healing.
It is about creating enough safety for connection to return.
A place to land
The Softening was intentionally designed as an intimate retreat experience, welcoming only four couples into a warm and spacious Montana retreat home nestled beneath the pines.
Shared gathering spaces, hot tub evenings beneath the trees, hammocks, nearby mountain views, outdoor dining, and the private stargazing dome all create opportunities for couples to soften into a slower rhythm together.
Rather than a traditional luxury resort experience, The Softening offers something quieter:
• spacious mornings
• emotional ease
• nourishing meals
• meaningful connection
• uninterrupted time together in nature.
Retreat Accommodations
Mountain King Suite
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Woodland Queen Suite
Private king bedroom with connected upstairs bathroom access
A warm and grounding retreat space located on the upper level of the home, offering a king bed, connected bathroom access, and close proximity to the retreat’s shared gathering spaces and lush tree views.
Ideal for couples who enjoy being close to the heart of the retreat atmosphe
Private king bedroom with connected upstairs bathroom access
A warm and grounding retreat space located on the upper level of the home, offering a king bed, connected bathroom access, and close proximity to the retreat’s shared gathering spaces and lush tree views.
Ideal for couples who enjoy being close to the heart of the retreat atmosphere while still having a cozy private sanctuary to retreat into.
$2,497
Woodland Queen Suite
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Woodland Queen Suite
Private queen bedroom with nearby upstairs bathroom access
The most spacious bedroom in the retreat home, offering an airy and inviting atmosphere designed for rest, softness, and slow mornings together.
Located on the upper level near the retreat’s shared gathering spaces, this room is ideal for couples who enjoy spacious accommodations an
Private queen bedroom with nearby upstairs bathroom access
The most spacious bedroom in the retreat home, offering an airy and inviting atmosphere designed for rest, softness, and slow mornings together.
Located on the upper level near the retreat’s shared gathering spaces, this room is ideal for couples who enjoy spacious accommodations and easy access to the heart of the retreat experience.
$2,197
Meadow Queen Retreat
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Private queen bedroom with nearby downstairs bathroom access
A peaceful lower-level retreat room offering additional privacy and separation from the main gathering spaces above.
Ideal for couples who enjoy a quieter, tucked-away atmosphere with a cozy and restful retreat feel.
$2,197
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Wildwood Retreat Nest
Private lower-level retreat with flexible lounge and sleep spaces.
An intentionally styled retreat cocoon designed for softness, spaciousness, rest, and connection.
Featuring a unique two-zone layout with cozy sleeping and lounge areas, this immersive retreat space invites couples into a slower, more relaxed retreat rhythm throughout the w
Private lower-level retreat with flexible lounge and sleep spaces.
An intentionally styled retreat cocoon designed for softness, spaciousness, rest, and connection.
Featuring a unique two-zone layout with cozy sleeping and lounge areas, this immersive retreat space invites couples into a slower, more relaxed retreat rhythm throughout the weekend.
Layered bedding, plush blankets, oversized pillows, soft lantern lighting, and grounding textures create an atmosphere that feels warm, playful, intimate, and deeply restorative.
$2,197
OPTIONAL INTEGRATION STAY
For couples who desire additional spaciousness after the retreat concludes, an optional Integration Stay is available Sunday evening through Monday morning.
This is not an additional retreat day or workshop experience.
Rather, it is intentionally designed as private integration time… an opportunity to continue enjoying the peaceful rhythm of Montana, uninterrupted time together, and a softer transition home.
Couples may choose to:
- explore Whitefish Lake or Glacier National Park
- revisit retreat practices privately
- spend quiet time together in the hammocks or hot tub
- book local excursions
- or simply rest and savor one more unhurried evening together.
The Integration Stay includes:
- one additional night of lodging
- breakfast Monday morning
- continued access to the property and retreat amenities. (Transportation to Airport can be arranged for additional fee)
A limited one-couple-only romantic dome experience may also be available as an optional add-on during the Integration Stay.
$447 per couple
The Softening Afterglow Experience Under the Stars
Optional Private Dome Experience
Available exclusively during the Optional Integration Stay, The Softening Afterglow Experience Under the Stars offers one couple the opportunity to experience a deeply intimate and intentionally curated private evening beneath the Montana sky inside the retreat’s stargazing dome.
Designed as a spacious continuation of the retreat experience, the evening may include:
- candlelight
- blankets and cozy floor seating
- charcuterie and refreshments
- ambient music
- intentional connection invitations
- reflection prompts
- and uninterrupted time together beneath the stars.
This experience is intentionally unhurried and designed to support presence, tenderness, emotional connection, and meaningful time together.
Only one Softening Afterglow Experience is available per retreat.
$333 per couple
Arousal Mapping... Mapping Your Body’s Yes
A gentle somatic guide to exploring where pleasure, safety, and desire live within your body. Arousal Mapping helps you reconnect to your body’s “yes,” without pressure, performance, or expectation.